Just when you think you've recovered from one mess, you move onto the next, like, having to move in the pouring rain, changing jobs, getting into an accident, another breakup, or maybe your best cousin dying, or someone from your past showing up late at night. Life is Messy.
It's so amazing.
In the messy parts we grow.
Work your ass off. Be a partner. Be a partner. Be a friend.
Im grateful that at 28 to have gained some wisdom:
making your bed can change the world
mountains are better than skyscrapers
i'm about as good at drinking as my mother, and thats not very good at all
people from our past are there for a reason
sometimes champagne is still acceptable at breakfast
the sunrise looks more magnificent after a good nights sleep
sleep is more vital than makeup
less really is more
unless we are talking about our people
hair grows back, and your face will still look the same
people are not invincible, even when they act like they are
tell your people you love them, even when you disagree
its okay to cry in your closet, or anywhere else when you need to
true love can be ugly, but is always loyal and patient
sex is better in love and outside
flexibility and mindfulness are not just a yoga practices
some things can only be learnt in the moonlight - wake your people up
playing cards is therapy
you can learn a lot from littles if you listen
coparenting is an art everyone would be lucky to master
home is anywhere
eat the fucking eggs benny, or cake, or chocolate
some people weren't meant to come with you
go to the funeral
regret nothing
30 is still young
but life is short
Be present.
sleep is more vital than makeup
less really is more
unless we are talking about our people
hair grows back, and your face will still look the same
people are not invincible, even when they act like they are
tell your people you love them, even when you disagree
its okay to cry in your closet, or anywhere else when you need to
true love can be ugly, but is always loyal and patient
sex is better in love and outside
flexibility and mindfulness are not just a yoga practices
some things can only be learnt in the moonlight - wake your people up
playing cards is therapy
you can learn a lot from littles if you listen
coparenting is an art everyone would be lucky to master
home is anywhere
eat the fucking eggs benny, or cake, or chocolate
some people weren't meant to come with you
go to the funeral
regret nothing
30 is still young
but life is short
Be present.